A Summer Day Date: Perkins Cove Charm and Ogunquit Playhouse Magic

One of my favorite things about summer in Maine is getting the chance to slow down and explore somewhere new. My husband and I finally made it to the historic Ogunquit Playhouse for the first time, and we paired it with a picture-perfect lunch in Perkins Cove for a full summer day date.

We picked a classic for our first show at the Playhouse: Guys & Dolls. But before curtain time, we made our way to Perkins Cove for lunch. I had read about Jackie’s Too, a waterfront spot with amazing views, which is always my favorite. Even though it was a little overcast and chilly for late June, we scored a great table with a front-row seat to the harbor. I ordered a chicken Caesar salad, and my husband went for the eggplant sandwich. Both hit the spot.

After lunch, we wandered around Perkins Cove and popped into a few local shops. We found some sweet treats at Perkins Cove Candies to bring with us on our upcoming trip to Cincinnati. We also strolled over the footbridge, which doubles as a hand-operated drawbridge. Yes, someone actually has to be available and willing to open it manually, which is kind of amazing. We lucked out and got to see it in action.

And of course, there was ice cream. I went with Raspberry Mint Chip and my husband chose Chocolate Brownie. We grabbed a bench by the water and watched the boats come and go while enjoying our scoops. Simple and perfect.

From there, it was just a short drive to the Ogunquit Playhouse, a beloved coastal landmark with a lot of character. If you're a veteran, there’s even a special parking lot right near the entrance, which made getting in and out so easy. We arrived early enough to check out the Gazebo Bar and the Patio Bar before the show. Both were lively and inviting. We ended up sharing a table with a lovely woman from Kennebunk and her sister, and had a great conversation while waiting for the doors to open.

Our seats were in the very back, but the view was just fine, even after everyone was seated. Neither of us had ever seen Guys & Dolls before, but it delivered exactly what we expected - a fun, romantic comedy with a bit of nostalgia. Not going to lie, the first act was long, and we both felt a little sleepy. But a stretch during intermission and a quick restroom break helped me reset, and the second act flew by.

Would we go again? Absolutely. Between the coastal charm of Perkins Cove and the classic Maine theater experience at Ogunquit Playhouse, it was a day date worth repeating.

What’s Growing in My Garden (and Why It’s Good for You Too)

When we bought our house, it came with garden boxes already in the backyard. I loved the idea of growing our own food, but for the first two summers, I prepped the beds and never actually planted anything. I didn’t know where to start and didn’t want to mess it up.

Last summer, we finally decided to just try. We planted a few things, learned a lot (like why mint should always be in its own container), and now we’re in our second season of actually growing things. Still learning, still experimenting, but already loving the payoff.

This year, we have a mix of herbs and veggies that are both delicious and functional, especially for midlife wellness. I even added a small garden box on the deck just for the mint and rosemary. It’s close to the kitchen, which makes it super convenient when I want to snip something fresh. I also use propagation jars indoors to keep clippings vibrant and ready to toss into meals or drinks.

Here’s what we’re growing and why I love it:

Tomatoes
These are rich in antioxidants like lycopene, which support heart health and reduce inflammation. I love them sliced on top of grilled burgers. 

Cucumbers
Hydrating and great for digestion, cucumbers are a go-to for cooling down in the summer. I add them to big leafy salads. They’re also great in infused water to help keep your skin and gut happy.

Cilantro
This herb does more than flavor your food. It supports detoxification by helping the body eliminate heavy metals and other toxins. I mix it into homemade salmon burgers or sprinkle it on top of grain bowls for a fresh, zesty finish.

Rosemary
Rosemary is rich in antioxidants and supports cognitive function, which becomes especially important during the menopause transition. I toss it with veggies before roasting. 

It also works great in a DIY mosquito repellant jar when we’re outside in the evenings. 

Mint
Mint is a summer staple for me. It helps soothe digestion and adds a burst of freshness. I use it in smoothies, fruit salads, mocktails, and herbal teas. 

Starting small and growing what you’ll actually use makes gardening feel more doable. And for midlife women, adding fresh herbs and produce to your meals is one of the simplest ways to boost nutrition without overcomplicating things.

What’s growing in your garden this summer? Or is there something you’ve been thinking about trying? I’d love to hear what you’re planting, prepping, or harvesting. Share in the comments!

Healthy BBQ Swaps That Still Taste Like Summer

We just fired up the grill for the first time this summer and let me tell you, nothing says “season’s here” like that first batch of grilled burgers. But there was a time when I didn’t feel this excited about BBQ season. I used to leave cookouts feeling bloated, tired, and like I had to start over again the next day.

Even when I tried to make “healthy” choices, I often ended up nibbling around the main dishes and feeling unsatisfied, only to snack later at home. Sound familiar?

These days, I come prepared. I focus choosing simple swaps that still taste like summer but don’t leave me feeling inflamed, foggy, or off track the next morning.

Here are a few of my go-to strategies:

1. Protein First
Grilled chicken, grass-fed burgers, shrimp skewers, or salmon are flavorful and satisfying. I usually skip the oversized bun and load up on avocado or lettuce wraps for extra fiber and healthy fat.

2. Smarter Sides
Instead of the usual potato or pasta salad, I go for sides that feel lighter but still satisfy. Think air-fried sweet potato fries with sea salt or grilled veggie skewers. I also love watermelon-cucumber salad with fresh mint and lime for something refreshing and hydrating.

3. Better Treats
I love having something sweet that doesn’t derail my energy or digestion. Protein popsicles or a colorful fruit platter are usually a hit and easy to prep ahead.

4. Hydration Matters
I skip the soda and sweet cocktails and go for sparkling water with fruit or a mocktail with electrolytes. Staying hydrated helps me feel my best through long, sunny afternoons.

BBQ season doesn’t have to be about restriction or guilt. With just a few smart choices, you can enjoy the fun, feel good about what you’re eating, and still keep your progress moving forward.

Ditch the Gym (Sometimes): 3 Summer Activities That Count as a Workout

If you’ve been craving a break from the gym this summer, let me offer you some permission: your movement doesn’t have to happen inside four walls to count.

In fact, for women navigating the menopausal transition, swapping one traditional workout each week for something fun, fresh, and outdoors can actually support your body in ways that feel more energizing and less depleting.

These are my top three favorites, and they’ve all earned a regular spot in my summer routine:

1. Pickleball with friends
Pickleball is hands-down my new favorite summer activity. I play with the ladies from Portsmouth Women's City Club and we have a blast. It’s sneaky exercise, with quick bursts of movement, agility, and laughter built in. What I love most is how it gets my heart rate up and keeps me moving without feeling like a workout. For women in midlife, that combination of movement and joy is gold for stress reduction and hormone balance.

2. Trail Walks and Hikes with the Dogs
Long walks with Quincy and Moose are one of the simplest ways I keep my body moving, especially when we find trails with water views. Getting outside, breathing fresh air, and climbing gentle inclines is great for your legs and heart health. It’s also grounding, which helps regulate cortisol. When hormones are shifting, activities like this are a powerful way to stay active without overstressing your system.

3. Paddleboarding on the Seacoast
Paddleboarding is something I miss deeply from my years living in Hong Kong and Hawaii. It works your core, arms, and balance, but it also connects you with nature and rhythm in a way few other workouts do. I would love to get back on the water here on the Seacoast this summer. For anyone looking to cross-train without high impact, this is a beautiful option.

Why This Matters
During perimenopause and menopause, your body becomes more sensitive to stress, including physical stress from intense workouts. That doesn’t mean you stop strength training or challenging yourself, but it does mean learning when to mix in movement that supports recovery, reduces inflammation, and boosts mood without wearing you out.

Subbing in one of these activities once a week can help you stay consistent while giving your body and mind exactly what they need. Plus, it's just fun to embrace summer activities with friends and family!

Summer Road Trip to Newport, RI: Highlights and Adventures

We just wrapped up another fantastic summer road trip to Newport, RI, and it was everything we hoped for and more! We stayed downtown, which meant we could easily walk everywhere and soak up all the charm this beautiful little city on the sea has to offer.

We arrived around lunchtime, so we enjoyed a picnic on the lawn outside the O'Club on the Navy base, with stunning views of Narragansett Bay and the Newport Pell Bridge. We also hit up the Exchange where mrC scored some new sneakers!

After checking into the hotel we were ready to get out and about in Newport. We hopped on the free trolley to explore the Great Elephant Migration exhibit at Salve Regina University on Bellevue Ave. Stunning! Life-size Indian elephants made out of lantana camera, an invasive weed that encroaches on wildlife habitats. It started to rain, so we headed back to the hotel for cocktails before dinner.

Dinner that night was a treat at Mother Pizzeria, a new spot we tried, followed by our traditional Kilwins ice cream downtown. You can't go to Newport without having some Kilwins!

Day two was just as wonderful. We started with another trolley ride to see more elephant exhibits at Rough Point and Breakers mansions. We even saw the iconic Rough Point camels! The Breakers was charging people full price to see the elephants, so we walked around the back on the Cliff Walk to get a peek. The views were worth it!

We hopped off the trolley to have some coffee and tea at a charming shop on Bellevue Ave while people-watching. 

Lunch at the Lobster Bar was a highlight—great views of the harbor and the boats coming and going made it extra special. Afterward, we walked down Thames Street and window-shopped a bit before popping into Giusto to enjoy an afternoon cocktail on Hammetts Wharf. They did not have the same yummy appetizer as last year.

The kids joined us in the evening for dinner at Diego's on Bowen’s Wharf, where we had the best Mexican meal we've had in Newport. We wrapped up the night with drinks at Surf Club, enjoying the outdoor seating and great conversations. My brother and sister-in-law who made it to Newport also joined us!

Our final day started a bit rough after a fun night out, but we grabbed some healthy food from the hotel and met up with the kids for a sailing tradition. Since the sailboat could only take five, I stayed behind with baby Frank. We had a blast playing on the lawn, looking for shells, watching the seagulls, and spotting a baby bunny at the O'Club. We walked over three miles, soaking in the last of Newport’s beauty.

It was a trip filled with memories and fun times with family. Until next year, Newport!

Don't Let Your Goals Drift Away on Summer Weekends

The holiday and weekend are wrapping up, but let's face it. Summer weekends are just getting started.

With get-togethers in full swing, don’t let your goals drift away. It’s easy to let a treat turn into a whole day of snacking or binging if you're not paying attention. Be mindful of consumption, especially empty calories in drinks, and plan out meals in advance as much as possible! You can still have fun and take steps towards your goals!

TRY THESE SIMPLE BBQ SWAPS:

• Choose a lettuce wrap instead of hamburger or hot dog buns
• Slather on mustard instead of mayo
• Try crispy roasted sweet potatoes instead of potato chips
• Satisfy your sweet tooth with summer berries (blueberries, strawberries, blackberries, raspberries) instead of cake or ice cream
• Bake a healthier treat without refined sugars/grains/dairy instead of a typical cake or cookies
• Drink sparkling water with citrus fruit instead of soda
• Make a big side salad full of colorful veggies instead of pasta salad
• Turn your regular burger into a yummy burger bowl! Ditch the bun, serve over a bed of lettuce, and add all your favorite burger toppings! (This is one of my FASTer Way favorites!)

Healthy weekends don’t have to be all about deprivation, because let’s be honest, that isn’t much of a weekend, right? Here’s the secret. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. You can find a balance that works for real life...even on summer weekends!

How To Do Summer in Hong Kong

Let's face it, summer is hot, humid and sticky and in Hong Kong it is worse than anywhere I've lived before. For someone who loves to be outside, it is hard to accept that you are always, and I mean always, going to be hot and sweaty (unless you never leave your apartment).

After three years of living in China, I think I have finally come up with a fool proof plan for surviving the summer heat. Today I'm sharing my plans for the summer as part of the Tuesday's on the Run topic link-up. Check it out:

Spend as many days as possible on junk boats (which just means hired boat). This popular activity is a great way to escape the city, cruise around the islands, enjoy good friends, good food and go for a dip in the refreshing China Sea. I went on a day junk a couple of weeks ago and I can't wait to do it again!

Go to the pool and swim, swim, swim. Since swimming has replaced my running, I want to swim as much as I used to run which was usually three days a week. With running, it took a lot of miles for me to feel comfortable and confident. The same is true for swimming. I've got a lot of laps to swim and learning to do.

Enjoy our iSUP. This is the time of year to get the boards out more. No worries about jelly fish and the water feels so nice (even if I like to stay on my board because I'm not a fan of deep water). I hope to be on the water for active recovery days and any other time that sounds good.

Travel ---> get out of the city. I'll go anywhere (hint, hint mrC), but the trip I am most looking forward to is our family vacation to the Cape at the end of August. Our goal every year is to get all three of the kids there with us at the same time. Crossing my fingers that this is one of those years.

What are your summer plans?

See what others are doing by checking out the link-up with Patty, Erika, and Marcia for Tuesdays on the Run! 

Friday Five: Kicking Off Summer

It turns out that living out of my suitcase for nearly a month took it's toll on me. As much as I wanted to jump right back into my normal routine of fitness and blogging when we got back to Hong Kong, my brain just wasn't ready.

Has it really been a month since my last blog post???

Today it finally felt like it was time to catch up and write a Friday Five post about what's been going on around here.

1. We were blessed with some incredibly nice weather when we got back from the states and I did some swimming and walking.

2. I researched a lot of different juices until I found a favorite ---> Happy Apple <3

3. mrC and I got dressed up and went to our first Chinese wedding celebration in Macau. If you think their celebrations are over-the-top, you are right! It was a lot of fun.

4. And then little C arrived for a kick off the summer two week visit ---> just as Hong Kong was having record-setting hot weather.

We went to Stanley Beach to show her one of Hong Kong's most popular sports and cheer on the AWA Dragon Boat team.

We got nice and sweaty hiking at Cape D'Aguilar and then cooled off with a swim at Shek O Beach.

She and I got to spend the day on a junk boat cruising around Hong Kong Island while her dad was working.

5. We played on our SUP boards.

A couple of weeks of living up to my 2018 goals, I felt refreshed and energized. In my next post, I will tell you about the two week fitness challenge I took.

I'm linking up with Lacey and Meranda and Rachel for the Friday Five 2.0!

Did your summer weather kick in early?

Tell me something you have been up to lately!